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3.Life After

  Life After Lets try something new. Basically the pass 2 months have been so hectic I refrained from even trying to put it into words, yet here I am finding myself about to talk about something I didn't even think I'd be ready to talk about. Life after a breakup. Not your typical break up either, but what exactly is a "typical break-up". Now I know some people go through way worse then simply being broken up with, but can we talk about the after effects of it. So last year around Oct. the universe decided to bring a female into my life via my job and then again on a dating site and we were inseparable since. Now me I have ALOT of trauma from pass relationships.  Stupid Men Stupid Females Trauma Bonds and some serious...attatchment issues with people my senior. Yah know? So im definitely not coming into this 100% ready to be all giving and healthy. Yet..why tf not? So I took a chance. We were broken up by Valentine's Day (for the fi...
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2. Troubles of the Heart

  Troubles of the Heart  With the title of this alone..this could be a heavy entry. So how about we make this a series, call it part 1. Anyways so I am not one to give much love advice but then again I feel I am. I've been through alot, my fair share but I can also say I've learned through most of them. I would start with a random but with honestly I think I want to hit home on the hardest lesson I've learned by far. It's not that 'Love comes and goes' bs, it's more so..you live and you learn. If I had a dollar for every time I thought I was In Love with someone..well I still wouldn't be rich but shi- I could get me a meal somewhere lol.  I fell for this shawty so hard I was sleeping over by night 4-5, we went a total of being without each other for a 22 days, in a span of  10 months. You tell me who won't be hurt after being joined to the hip with someone every day (minus the 22 without) for 10 mo...
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1. Twenty-Somethings

Twenty-Somethings Okay. Let's start with the nitty gritty. You know how people have a mid-life crisis? That's all everyone talks about, but no one talks about the beginning to life crisis, the fresh out of high school (4 years ago), the "Oh shit, I got dumped AGAIN..now what do I do." I want to state again I give GOOD advice, i will not say all my advice should be taken! Let me tell you why, I am my own person, and what works for me..well you know the rest. I have struggled in some of the usual, break-ups, rushed move-ins, move outs, stalkers, stupid men, stupid females..both platonic and not. And what do I do with all of this..I cry. No seriously- I cry. But only on the inside for the most part, in the outer I tend to do stupid things along the lines of.. Talking to mentally ill men who only care about themselves.  Getting into not 1, but 2 love triangles alone this year, and might currently still be in one as I speak. Buy shit I k...
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Introduction

  INTRODUCTON..  Now..trust me this is all new to me, but essentially something I have ALWAYS wanted to do. So bare with me please. I've finally come to the age where my life has taken quite a few twists and turns and I think I'm sane enough to let the world into it, because - and hear me out please I know it's going to sound corny- I can give some nice advice!  I've been through break-ups, break throughs, divorce (pending..), baby, baby daddies, fights, travel, abuse ( in every form might I add) and the obvious reason I'm still here and kicking it..adventure.  So I am here, or better yet WE, if we touch on every single voice in my head that has embodied it self into a personality..then yes. We are here to vent, cry, laugh, and have a good time with everyone who wants too. Cause let's face it, everyone can relate to someone at some point in time, and in my early 20's I promise you I do NOT have it all figured out...
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